Stop screwing up your marriage! Learn from Mark and Steve's mistakes!

During their deep addiction years, Mark and Steve made all the marriage mistakes you can imagine! Now they offer you a great gift—the...

Mark and Steve get VERY raw and real about the struggles during their deep addiction years. Knowing what they know now—if they could go...

In this episode, Mark and Steve walk you through three REAL LIFE examples of HOW to use the "Surrender Tool" in times of overwhelming...

Our natural tendency in addiction, betrayal trauma and current scary world events is to attempt to INCREASE the CONTROL we have over our...

Right now a lot of people across the world are feeling pretty "powerless"! But, those of us who have suffered from addiction, betrayal...

During times of HIGH emotional stress, like the COVID 19 pandemic, "triggers" go up for the population as a whole, and especially for...

Everyone who gets trapped in porn addiction struggles with the "big mystery"--why do I keep going back to this crap? Why can't I just say...

Trauma is ALWAYS part of a marriage relationship—either trauma we bring with us from childhood or trauma created while we're married....

Most of were raised to believe that "conflict is bad" and to be avoided at all costs! The truth is, in healthy relationships, conflict...

When pornography addiction tears a couple apart, there are TWO very important processes that MUST be taking place in order for the...

There's a big debate about what is pornographic and what is not. Mark and Steve talk raw and real about HOW to define "porn."

A recent article in a popular publication claimed that "porn is the perfect stress reducer." In this episode, Mark and Steve get raw and...