Let Go of "Emotional Wallowing" & Embrace "Vision & Meaning"
When we rely on "sheer motivation" to break out of porn addiction, this will easily plunge us into a pit where we become stuck in...
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- Jun 22, 2021
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Father's Day—Addiction & Trauma Trigger or Healing Event?
There are MANY "triggers" that can impact and even derail addiction recovery and healing from betrayal trauma. One trigger that can...
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- Jun 15, 2021
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Why is Mindfulness & Connecting with Myself SO Hard?!
We constantly talk about how and why “mindfulness” and CONNECTING with your True, Authentic Self is SO critical to recovery and healthy...
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- Jun 8, 2021
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Erectile Dysfunction and Your "Arousal Template"
A podcast listener asked about her husband's risky, bizarre, self-centered sexual behaviors; his Erectile Dysfunction; and how these are...
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- Jun 1, 2021
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I’m Engaged to a Porn Addict—What Should I Do?
In this episode, Mark and Steve respond to a listener who is engaged to a porn addict. She submitted a message through PBSEpodast.com...
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- May 25, 2021
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Is Physical Touch the “Love Language” of Most Porn/Sex Addicts?
In this episode, Mark and Steve address and excellent question submitted by a PBSE listener— In the book written by Gary Chapman it...
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- May 18, 2021
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Moving from Addiction to Connection: Reconciliation with Family
In this episode, Mark and Steve respond to a question submitted by a PBSE listener: My husband has been in active recovery since earlier...
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- May 10, 2021
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From Surviving to Thriving in Your Marriage: A Vision for Addicts
In this episode Mark and Steve use the analogy of a unique little bird known as the "Bower Bird." HOW can we guys who are in recovery...
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- May 4, 2021
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When is it Time to “Shake Up” Your Recovery and Healing?
Your recovery and healing are always at risk of stagnation, burnout, boredom, overwhelm, relapse and other potential "disrupters." In...
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- Apr 27, 2021
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How Inadequate Self-Care Sabotages Your Recovery and Healing!
Mark and Steve discuss why Self-Care is SO crucial to overcoming porn addiction, healing from betrayal trauma and mending your marriage....
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- Apr 20, 2021
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The Wall Between Betrayal Trauma and Healing/Connection
In Episode 66, Mark and Steve explored the walls an addict spouse often throws up in defense against his betrayal-trauma-suffering spouse...
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- Apr 13, 2021
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The WALL Between Conflict and Connection
A BIG part of beginning to heal a marriage marred by pornography addiction, is for the addict spouse to provide a SAFE space for the...
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- Apr 6, 2021
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How Can a Struggling Couple Come Out of "Relationship Limbo"?
In this episode, Mark and Steve respond to a recent email from a listener— “I’d like to know how is it that your wives were willing and...
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- Mar 30, 2021
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Can I Ever Go Back to Porn?
In this episode, Mark and Steve openly address a common issue they faced in their own recoveries, and one they see often with their...
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- Mar 23, 2021
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What it Takes to SUCCEED in Recovery and Healing!
In this episode, Mark and Steve give listeners a window into what they've learned from their own recoveries and what they've experienced...
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- Mar 16, 2021
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Defining "Slips" and "Relapses"
When a couple is working together through addiction recovery and healing betrayal trauma, it can be VERY difficult to understand the...
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- Mar 9, 2021
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Where is the line between “loving” someone and “trusting” them?
In this episode, Mark and Steve address a PBSE listener's heart-felt dilemma. After discovering her spouse's addiction to porn and...
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- Mar 2, 2021
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Spiritual Safety and Sexual Intimacy: You Can Have Both!
In this episode, Mark and Steve address a questions submitted by a listener— "Can you discuss the dynamic of being the spouse of an...
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- Feb 23, 2021
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Is it "OK" to "Offend" Your Partner?
In this episode, Mark and Steve address some very poignant questions submitted by a listener: "What do you do when the proof is in the...
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- Feb 16, 2021
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Great! He’s in Recovery . . . but What is He Thinking?
In this episode, Mark and Steve address a recent question by a listener—a very honest, legitimate, excellent question— "Hi there, my...
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